10 ways to have sex in Islam
10 Interrelated Procedures According to Islam What Every Muslim Needs to Know This is the 10 ways to have sex according to Islam that every Muslim needs to know, especially married ones.
By applying this ordinance, the intimate relationships that you partner with do not only meet the needs of sexuality alone, but will be worthy of worship and reward on His side. Islam is a very human religion because it fits with human nature.
In Islam all aspects of human life in everyday life is well organized and complete. One of them is the procedure of having sex, which in Islam has been arranged adab and the procedure is complete either before the intercourse begins, while having sex, or after. The 10 ordinances of sexual intercourse in Islam are as follows:
1. Clean yourself first Everyone is already fitrahnya when likes cleanliness. the hygiene that human wants does not only include physical hygiene, but physical and spiritual hygiene. Likewise with the intimate relationship of body hygiene needs to be considered before starting an intimate relationship. It is advisable to clean the body with a shower and brush your teeth first before having sex.
Physical hygiene will bring comfort and health of couples. In addition to physical hygiene is also recommended to perform ablution first before having sex. With ablution is expected to make the heart and soul always maintained its holiness.
2.Using fragrances One recommendation for couples before starting to have sex is to use fragrances. Especially for a woman the use of perfumery is recommended to be used when near her partner and prohibited when smelled by another man.
In addition, by wearing a fragrance that is favored by husband and wife will make the relationship more satisfied and enjoyable. Because wewangain proven to increase male and female libido. Wearing the fragrance itself is one of the sunnah of Prophet Muhammad SAW.
This is in accordance with his words which read: "Four kinds among the sunna-sunnah of the Apostles are: merciful, wearing fragrance, bersiwak and married" (HR Tirmidhi).
Well, by using fragrances in addition will increase your passion with your partner is also a sunna that will bear fruit reward.
3. Praying two rak'ats Praying sunna prayer 2 rakaat first before having sex is recommended for every couple. The suggestion was mainly for newlyweds. As atsar Abdullah bin Mas'ud radhiyallahu "anhu who advised the newlyweds to invite his wife to pray two raka'at first when starting the first night.
4. Dress up and dress the husband or wife likes Wrong conditions that will make a great horny guy is a condition where his partner looks more beautiful and attractive. Likewise, women will love their partner who looks clean and attractive.
Husbands may ask their wives to wear super mini clothes or even undress all their clothes. It is as good as the wife is able to arouse the lust of her partner. This is in accordance with the hadith which reads: "The best of your wife is the clever keep themselves more intelligent to arouse lust. That is hard to maintain his honor again intelligent to raise the lust of her husband. "(HR Ad Dailami).
5. Intercourse in a closed place In Islam couples who have sex should be in a closed room. Rooms that are not seen by others without exception, including children and other nearby families.
In addition to maintaining your honor and your partner, also so as not to cause sin because it looks aurat by others. If it must remain one room with a child because he is still small and need more attention, then when going to have sex seek another room.
6. Pray Every time you will have intercourse, read the prayer first. In addition to avoiding the devil's interference, it will also bring a positive impact on the offspring if it turns out the relationship makes your partner pregnant. The prayer before having sex is as follows:
بسم الله اللهم جنبنا الشيطان وجنب الشيطان ما رزقتنا "
In the Name of Allah, O Allah! Keep us from satan, and keep the shay so as not to disturb what (the child) that You provide for us. "(Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)
7. Warming up before medical science and sexologists advocate foreplay, the Apostle has taught to do warm up first before starting an intimate relationship. As He said: "Let not one of you interfere with his wife like an animal. Let him first give preliminaries, namely kisses and cumbu bayu, "(Tirmidhi)
From the above hadith obtained a learning when every husband should treat his partner when having sex with both. One of them is to do the introduction, namely kiss and seduction. In addition to warming up with kisses and seduction, other heating that can be done is by touch. As taught by Imam Abu Hanifah when asked by his disciple.
Imam Abu Hanifah was asked by his disciple about the husband who holds his wife's genitals or the wife holds his husband's genitals (as a prelude to jima '), he replied, "No problem, even I hope this will magnify the reward." (Tabyin al-Haqaiq).
8. Equally Gain Satisfaction Obtaining mutual satisfaction is indeed a right for husbands and wives. In Islam also so husbands are encouraged to meet the sexual needs of his wife and if it has ejaculated before the couple get it, then do not immediately leave it. As one hadith that reads: "If one of you fifth wife, let him complete his wife's intentions. If he precedes his wife, then he should not be rushed to leave it. "(HR Abu Ya'la)
9. Washing the genitals and performing ablution If you want to repeat Not infrequently after the first and ejaculated sexual intercourse, the man again rose libidonya. This is natural and there is no prohibition. But before starting the second round wash the pubic first and perform ablution.
As the saying of the Prophet in a hadith which reads: "If any one of you come to his wife, then he wants to repeat it, then should he perform ablution." (HR Muslim)
10. Large bath (janabat) When it is finished intercourse, then Large bath is a must for both husband and wife. By performing a new bath can only impose worship. That's the 10 ways to have sex according to Islam that every Muslim needs to know. Hopefully useful and can be applied in everyday life.
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